Seven Quick Takes: Mother’s Day Edition

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I wasn’t sure how Mother’s Day would be, since Mr. SJ tweaked his back on Friday and wasn’t able to do as much with the kids, but other than needing me to handle all diaper changes and dirty dishes, he did all right. That might sound awfully suspicious, but washing dishes is generally tough on him because the height of the sink is bad for him, and that’s also what gets him with changing diapers. Eh, just give me some time to sit in peace and quiet and read without interruption and I am quite happy to change the diapers.

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I made myself the delectable King Arthur Flour Chocolate Indulgence cake that I discussed in my birthday planning 7QT. One of the nicest things about this cake is that it is way too chocolatey for Mr. SJ to want to eat it, so it’s all mine. Fortunately it freezes nicely too. :)

Mine wasn’t quite that pretty, but it tastes just as good as it looks.

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I thought about taking myself (and the baby) to the library for a bonus visit – usually I go only ever 3 weeks (the length of time a book can be checked out). I was too lazy to want to drive down there however, and instead just stayed home.

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I also passed on the opportunity to go to Target by myself (or just with the baby.) Again, the pull of my books was stronger than the pull of wandering the aisles in peace.

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Because the boy is generally so insistent that he be near me, unless he’s working with daddy (mowing the grass, cleaning up the garage), his dad ended up taking him to a nearby park for a walk on Sunday to give me some quiet. Of course the baby woke up not 5 minutes after they left, so the quiet wasn’t quite what he was trying to provide.

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Last week Mr. SJ was very weird about telling me that he was taking the boy out. They were going to the store. I was starting to ask him more in depth what he was doing because he was being so odd about it, and then I realized: Mother’s Day and my birthday are both approaching. I’m sure they’re going to go look for cards.

Yup, that’s what they were doing. The boy picked me out a very nice Mother’s Day card with Mickey Mouse, Donald Duck, and Goofy wishing me a happy day. As Mr. SJ said, there was absolutely no doubt which card he would pick once he saw that one; only perhaps if there had been a Lightning McQueen one might there have been some hesitation as to which one would win.

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My mom and mother-in-law pretty much always send me a card for Mother’s Day. Not this year, which made me laugh. However, one of my sister-in-laws sent me a really sweet card for Mother’s Day, and I wasn’t expecting that!

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Mothers

Mother

I’m cheating a bit with the theme for this week’s photo, “Mothers.” Both my mother and mother-in-law live out of state, so I couldn’t get a picture of theme for the week. I am terrible at self-portraits so I didn’t even try getting myself in a photo.

Instead I photographed the two children that gave me the title of “mother.” I have renewed admiration for children’s photographers, because trying to get both of them cooperating in one photo was hugely challenging.

What did you do for Mother’s Day?

For more photos illustrating “Mothers,” visit Kent Weakley, who is hosting for Darcy at my3boybarians.

Seven Quick Takes: Kid Edition

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G has had no interest in drinking from a “real” cup, and I never cared enough to really push it. He’s got cups with straws that he uses for water, and a supposedly teeth-friendly somewhat spouted cup that he uses at meals for milk. I figured with warmer weather I’d encourage him to take a real cup outside to practice.

Until last week, when on a whim I asked him if he wanted to try to drink like a big boy. A little water in a cup, and he drank it down like he’d been doing it forever. He was so proud of himself too, running around all day repeating that he’s “drinkin’ like uh BIG BOY!”

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Still no interest in using the potty like a big boy however.

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His sister is walking like an absolute pro now. She will cross the room in a flash, and is also so proud of herself. She knows she’s accomplishing something impressive! It’s cute how she still has to hold her arms out a bit for extra balance. And she’s liable to PLOP down onto her bottom suddenly if she loses that balance.

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My mother-in-law’s birthday was last week, and I prepped the boy for a birthday phone call.

“What are we going to tell Grandma?”

“HappybirthdayLoveYouSeeYouSoon!”

Amazingly, once on the phone he actually said it all! Unfortunately he wouldn’t say it when he was all that close to the phone, so it wasn’t super clear, but she claimed she understood it. It helped when he started repeating “LOVE YOU! LOVE YOU! LOVE YOU!” at length and volume.

He was also very excited to tell her his big news, already shared her in QT#1.

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G generally has really good enunciation, but he’s got one quirk that I find so adorable I don’t correct him. He’s started calling balloons and bananas “palloon” and “panana.” He used to say them both with the “b” sound, so I’m not sure where the “p” came from, but it is so cute, and I know it won’t last long so I’m just smiling at it while it lasts.

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If anyone ever asks for my children to be in a wedding again, please remind me to say no. Politely, but still. NO. It was so stressful worrying about whether or not he’d cooperate. Whether or not he’d throw a fit, or who knows what else to disrupt the ceremony. Would he even wear the clothes he was supposed to? They weren’t his usual:

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Happily, he was GREAT. Walked down the aisle with the flower girl, carrying the little pillow that supposedly held the rings (the best man/maid of honor actually had them, so we weren’t worried about him losing them.) Then when he got up to the front & the stairs, he apparently set the pillow down and then put his head down on it, much to the audience’s amusement. Daddy pulled him aside for most of the ceremony (and the flower girl just about threw a fit because she wanted to go join G with his dad, instead of staying with her dad on the other side of the room), and then got both kids back into position for their reverse trek down the aisle behind the bridge & groom.

Unfortunately due to a sick baby girl, I wasn’t able to attend the ceremony or reception, which is why I say “apparently” above. I’m just going on what was reported to me.

And the clothes? I prepped him for it by talking them up as “snazzy clothes.” He was so excited to put them on, he didn’t want to take them off! He kept walking around talking about his “SNAZZY CLOTHES!”

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So the wedding was on Saturday, and baby girl was sick. Sunday G was also sick, and was much worse than his sister had been. He spent a lot of Sunday snoozing on the couch or on me, and ended up staying up with his dad fairly late. He was clearly still sick because he never wanted anything for dinner, and even with all the napping, he still slept that night (albeit a late start.)

Not that I want my children to be sick, but since I was also sick, it was a good time for G to be lower energy & willing to crash on the couch. I couldn’t have kept up with his usual requests to play outside, or go for walks or whatever else he’d want.

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Still Life

Still Life

“Still Life,” the theme for this week’s photo, immediately brought to mind paintings of fruit and flowers. It also brought to mind my son, the antithesis of “still life” if there ever was one.

Instead of trying to get a photo of my son in a rare still moment (you can see one of those at last week’s “Siesta” picture), or a composed photo of cut flowers arranged in a vase like my mental image of “Still Life,” I decided to shoot the beautiful flowers that are now blooming outside my front window.

Why? Because flowers are something that can still my son when we go for walks. He is so high-energy, and races his motorcycle as fast as he can, but when we come across flowers he has to stop every time and give them all a sniff. Often I have trouble keeping him from racing up to people’s front doors if they have flowers flanking the doorway; he wants to smell them all. I try and contain him to flowers that are accessible from the sidewalks only.

What do you think of for “Still Life?”

For more photos illustrating “Still Life,” visit Kent Weakley, who is hosting for Darcy at my3boybarians.

Ten Months

Baby girl turned ten months old on Sunday. Time is flying so fast I haven’t even posted an update since she was six months, so this is clearly overdue.

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She was 22 1/2 pounds at her 9-month checkup, and she’s still super tall for her age. I’m glad that she’s a strong girl because her brother can be so rough!

She was almost 8 months old before she finally decided that “real food” wasn’t poison, and now she eats with relish, as long as SHE is the one doing the feeding. I’m struggling to come up with a variety of things to give her that she can self-feed, because she has no interest in being spoon-fed.

(And then as soon as I start writing this, she’s suddenly decided that those fruit/veggie blends from the squeeze containers are AWESOME and polishes off one at each meal. I … need to get back to the store.)

She’s still an awful sleeper, and frequently gets up multiple times during the night. We’re working on it, but balancing teaching her to sleep through the night and keeping her brother from waking up due to her crying is difficult.

Her patience for being read to is limited, but I keep reminding myself that her brother also went through a stage where he wouldn’t hold still for books. She will happily play nearby on the floor while I read however, so she’s at least still hearing the stories.

She’s getting her first tooth finally, a cute little nub on her bottom gum had just started pee
king through when she went to her 9-month checkup. I think I can see the second one right next to it about to break through.

Her laugh is one of the sweetest things I’ve ever heard, and I’m trying to capture it on video. No such luck so far, but I’ll keep trying. She makes lots of other adorable little sounds that I’ll miss.

She is absolutely, positively, 100% a mama’s girl. To the point where I feel bad for her daddy at times, because she is so definite in her preference for me. I’m trying to enjoy it while it lasts though, because I know that she won’t always think I’m the most wonderful thing in the entire world. Even her brother, as much as he still adores me, still very much wants to hang out with his daddy as much as possible, and gets so distraught when he leaves to go anywhere without him.

Seven Quick Takes

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I’ve been working hard on sorting pictures lately, both to get caught up on sharing them with grandparents and other family, and to make sure everything is backed up and safe. It’s been fun looking back at baby girl, because the changes from just a few months are amazing.

I’ve shared it before, but here’s one of those old pictures of baby H:

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Tomorrow will be the first Saturday we don’t have plans in awhile, and we need to appreciate it because next Saturday is the in(RL) meetup, and the next Saturday is a wedding. This is really unusual for us to have all of our Saturdays with something scheduled, and I don’t really like it.

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I still do not have anything for my son to wear to that wedding, and it’s kind of important since he’s going to be the ring bearer. Who won’t actually have the real rings of course, because I would not trust him with that. I’m really skeptical that he’ll cooperate and walk down the aisle like they want him to, but it’s not my family, so I didn’t feel like I could do more than gently discourage having him in that role. Unfortunately for me and my I-hate-shopping persona, even though it’s my husband’s family & he was the one to give the final “yes, he’ll do it,” I’m the one who has to find him something to wear. And some appropriate shoes. And I’m running out of time!

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We’ve just started “birthday season.” That’s what I now think of this time of year. Mid-April is my husband’s birthday. Mine is six weeks later. End of June is baby girl’s, and then just over two weeks later is the boy’s. So yes, that’s April, May, June & July, all covered by the four of us. Fortunately both kids are too young to have strong opinions on gifts or parties or cake, so there isn’t much pressure on me.

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Mr. SJ? He bought his own birthday present this year, because he wanted some more memory for his laptop, and a box of baseball cards. The cards I probably could have ordered, but I don’t know what brand he collects, and I definitely don’t know what sort of memory he wanted for his laptop. So instead of him telling me exactly what to order & then hoping I don’t mess it up, he just ordered it himself.

It’s really obvious sometimes that we’ve been married almost a decade, isn’t it? We are so super romantic when it comes to gifts. :)

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I’ve liked the crazy Spring weather we’ve had it’ll be nice and warm with one chilly day mixed in there – just enough for me to fix soup for dinner or some other cool-weather meal. I always mourn the end of soup season so I appreciate the inconsistent weather extending it for me! Something tells me that we’ve seen the last of it and it’s time to say goodbye to soup until Fall.

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I take it back – we do possibly have plans this weekend. Unless something changes or gets delayed, we’re selling my car to one of Mr. SJ’s extended family. I am ridiculously sad about this. I’m also wondering just how long we’ll make it as a one-vehicle family, or if our timetable to get a replacement will get accelerated.

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Things That Grow

Unlike last week’s theme where I struggled to figure out how to interpret it, and never did really like my idea or photograph, this week it was clear what I wanted to photograph. I have young children, of course they are the first things I think of for “things that grow.” And then my baby took her first unassisted steps last Saturday at only 9 1/2 months, so it was even more perfect to feature her.

Until Tuesday morning, when both kids were near the front door when the garbage truck was going down the street. They were FASCINATED by watching it, and both of them stood at the glass door, glued to its movement.

The picture isn’t the greatest, because I had to move fast before the truck left, but I love how it captures both of them:

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But since I don’t want to ignore baby girl after her big milestone, here she is, so proud of herself:

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