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January Goal Review and February Goals

I recently posted my goals for 2012, but I’m going to change my plans. I’m going to focus on some smaller, monthly goals instead.

My January goals were:

  1. To get up 30 minutes before the G as part of Inspired to Action’s #hellomornings challege. (Well, I got up earlier. He’s just gotten up earlier too. :( So this was actually a bad goal because I couldn’t control it completely.)
  2. Take a daily walk with the kids, weather permitting (yes, with the other exception of health permitting as well. There was a rough week and a half in there that didn’t allow for walking.)
  3. Move the rest of our belongings, pending the sale of our home. Substitute goal if the sale doesn’t go through: Deal with the paper explosion upstairs. File, shred, recycle. (No substitute goal needed. The sale is still on to close this week, and the house is empty. Woo-hoo!)

January reading goals:

  1. Close Enough to Hear God Breathe(Read and reviewed)
  2. Don’t Make Me Count to Three(Read)
  3. Simple Blogging(In progress; taking time to think about each chapter as I finish them)
  4. Moonwalking with Einstein (Read)

February Goals
Personal Goals:

  1. Be in bed by 11:00. As in, lights off, head on the pillow, eyes closed. Hopefully this will help me continue on with my HelloMornings challenge, and this is controllable by me in a way that getting up 30 minutes before the boy is not.
  2. Taxes ready to be filed. And then wait 48 hours to file them in hopes of avoiding the mistakes I’ve made the past years.
  3. Guest room put back into working order.
  4. Basement shelving put up and items unpacked onto it.

(Four because those last two are both pretty easy)

Reading Goals:

  1. Loving the Little Years: Motherhood in the Trenches
  2. Prayer: Does It Make Any Difference?
  3. A Million Miles in a Thousand Years: How I Learned to Live a Better Story
  4. The 100 Thing Challenge: How I Got Rid of Almost Everything, Remade My Life, and Regained My Soul

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Books to Read in 2012

Last week I posted my reading goals for January, and promised a list of some of the books I’d like to read in 2012.

As promised, here’s my initial list of books, but I’m sure I’ll add to it as the year goes on.

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Reading Goals

Week 1: Resolution

(Some of the books I’m thinking about reading this year)

It seems strange to me to have goals for reading. Before children I read so many books I usually averaged over 400 in a year. That’s right, more than a book a day of a mix of children’s, young adult, mystery, fantasy, and lots and lots of nonfiction.

My reading pace has slowed so significantly that I really have to be more picky as to the books I read – when I’m reading maybe 5 a month I have got to be selective as to what those 5 are. I was somewhat selective before, in that if I didn’t like a book I might not finish it, but I was much more willing to read randomly.

So, this year I’m going to set some specific goals. My overall intent is to:

  • Read for Spiritual growth
  • Read for increased knowledge regarding parenting
  • Read for personal growth
  • Read for general interest

How does that work? Well, for January my reading goals were:

  1. Close Enough to Hear God Breathe (Spiritual growth)
  2. Don’t Make Me Count to Three (Parenting knowledge)
  3. Simple Blogging(Personal growth)
  4. Moonwalking with Einstein (General interest)

My other big goals is to tackle the ridiculous pile of unread books I own, rather than just reading library books. I’m going to add one book a month from my own stash to my reading goals. Those are mostly in the Spiritual growth and parenting knowledge categories; I don’t own very many that would fit into the other categories.

This week I plan to start compiling a list of some of the books I want to read in 2012, and I’ll share that list next week.

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Review: Close Enough to Hear God Breathe

Close Enough to Hear God Breathe: The Great Story of Divine Intimacy by Greg Paul

I wanted to like this book, I really did. I loved the title. I loved the idea, of getting close enough to God to hear Him breathe. But I didn’t like the book at all.

I found the text to be too filled with personal examples that, while enjoyable to read, illustrated the topic only peripherally if at all. I thought his introductory passage detailing Jesus’ baptism by John to be too imaginative for my tastes, and somewhat crude.

I wanted meat and instead found fluff. I wanted to be convicted and was instead annoyed. I wanted insight and instead found repetitive banality.

The book promised an intimate journey with God, but completely failed to deliver on that promise.

Disclosure: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze®.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own.

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Review: The Voice New Testament

The Voice New Testament is a dynamic equivalent translation that aims to read like a story. The text claims to try and retain the different voices of the original authors of the books of the New Testament, and I was excited to see how that was handled. Unfortunately, I felt like there wasn’t much of a noticeable difference in the writing style of the books I read (Luke, Mark, and Philippians).

There were some positives for me – I liked the reading plans included at the front of the book, especially the one for Advent which is often neglected. I also liked the topical guide. I liked the idea of having the text formatted like a script. I do not like how, in an effort to avoid footnotes, the layout includes embedded notes and italicized additions to the text that ends up being distracting and annoying. I also have significant concerns over the italicized additions of material not in the original text. Despite the introductory claims that the italicized words contain information “that would have been obvious to those originally addressed” by the Scripture and are intended “to help the reader better understand the text,” I felt that the additions went way beyond those admirable goals.

I dislike how The Voice’s website seems to disparage other translations as it claims that readers can “discover that they can actually hear God’s voice speaking into their life today,” and “connect or reconnect with God through His story.” I also don’t think that you are limited to The Voice if you want “a Bible that is relevant to [your] life today, and that, by reading it, [you] can hear God speaking to [you] personally.”

My go-to Bible translations are the ESV and NIV, but I regularly read other translations as a way to see concepts and ideas in a new light and was excited to add a new version to my collection. However, I didn’t like the distracting format, and especially didn’t like the italicized additions, which seemed to cross the line for me from translation to commentary in the middle of the text. I doubt that I will read it again and don’t recommend it.

An additional note on formatting: I read this on my iPod using a Kindle app. The formatting does not display well at all under those reading conditions and the reading plans are basically unusable, and other special features such as colored text is rendered useless. I don’t own a Kindle so can’t comment on whether or not formatting issues are still a concern if you’re not using the app.

Disclosure: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze®.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own.

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A Year with Jesus

A Year with Jesus: Daily Readings and Reflections On Jesus’ Own Words by R.P. Nettelhorst is a 365-day devotional book that is based on the words of Jesus.

The devotional is arranged thematically, and topics include:
Love and Hate
Truths and Lies
Arrogance and Humility
Friends and Enemies
Belief and Disbelief
Patience and Impatience
Deserved and Undeserved
Good and Evil
Fidelity and Treachery
Life and Death

The stated aim of the devotional is to deepen your relationship with Jesus, by listening to what he had to say. I think it would be very successful at doing that, with its clear focus and wise insight on what that means to us today.

As with most daily devotionals, the individual entries are brief which makes it great for someone looking for a simple or quick devotional. It is not a good choice if someone is looking for an in-depth study or really meaty devotional, particularly since there are no additional related verses or suggested resources for more study listed on any of the entries.

I appreciated the topical focus, and that the brief passages encouraged really focusing on what Jesus said, especially with some of the more familiar scriptures. It’s so easy to skim over something I’ve read numerous times, and Nettelhorst’s arrangement and commentary gave new insight.

I liked that the individual entries were not dated, which makes it easy to pick up the book at any time during the year or allows for a slower pace through the book.

There are eight different translation versions used in the devotional, so it may not be a good choice for someone who has a strong preference to only use a particular translation, but I felt that the variety helped give a fresh take on some verses I’m accustomed to reading in the NIV or ESV.

I found the book to be a valuable resource and would be a good choice for anyone who enjoys devotionals.

Disclosure: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookSneeze®.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own.

Lighten Up

I’m a big fan of Peter Walsh from seeing him on TV helping families declutter their homes, and reading all of his books. He always questioned people as to their vision for their rooms/homes/lives and advised to hold to that vision as they made decisions as far as what to keep and what to discard.

In his latest book, Lighten Up: Love What You Have, Have What You Need, Be Happier with Less his focus is on the opportunity the current economic climate provides to reassess priorities: what truly matters in life (hint: it’s not stuff).

Part One of the book is an overview of moving from living with less to living with more – taking today’s economy as a chance to reevaluate and ask what’s your vision for your life.

Part Two is all about auditing your life as it is, and taking action to get it to where you want to be: personal, financial, and home.

Part Three is about taking what you’ve learned and maintaining it.

I found myself writing down numerous quotes from the book:

  • Does this item or thought or response move me closer to my vision for my best life?>
  • Clutter (is) anything that stands between you and the vision you have for your best life – it’s so much more than just the stuff.
  • You can’t live your best life in a cluttered, messy, disorganized space.
  • Ten to fifteen short minutes can transform a life. (it all adds up!)
  • Pick a single, doable thing you can do differently that will move you closer to your vision.
  • Do justice to your memories. Honor them appropriately.
  • An organized life provides the foundation for whatever you want to accomplish.
  • Choose just one thing – one thing to change and let that one thing be your launch pad for further change.

I wasn’t expecting to find the financial audit and action section especially useful – it’s one area of life where I feel like we’ve got a pretty good handle on things and we’re on the right track. However, I’m still glad I read it because Walsh spends some time discussing opportunity cost which is something I’ve not always considered as much as I should.

The home audit and action section was where I expected and wanted to be inspired and I was. As much as I declutter and organize it seems like I turn around and it’s back to being cluttered and disorganized before I know it. Funnily enough, he even mentions that there’s a reason for that, and it’s called the second law of thermodynamics. A clean room will not stay that way and it has to be maintained. Since maintenance is much easier than a complete overhaul I need to stay on top of things and do the daily tasks that keep chaos at bay. He does mention that keeping the vision I have for the room/house/my life helps make maintenance tasks easier, and that makes sense.

I read so many of these sorts of books to reenergize myself to do what I know I need to do, and I find Walsh particularly motivating.

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Starting Something New

Alternate titles:
Incremental Improvement is Better Than No Improvement
Small Steps Forward
Just. Do. Something.

I’ve really been struggling since Baby Girl’s birth in June. As hard as pregnancy is for me what with the endless vomiting and all, postpartum is even harder in many ways. The baby is about 3 1/2 months old and I feel like I’m maybe, just possibly, hopefully coming out of the new baby fog.

One thing I’ve realized with two children is that I absolutely have to prioritize how I’m spending my time, because it is PRECIOUS. If I’m going to do more than just survive through this season of littles in diapers, I need to plan what I’m doing.

Enter One Bite at a Time: 52 Projects for Making Life Simpler, Tsh Oxenreider’s new e-book. While I can count and 52 projects at one project a week is one year, I’m going to give myself some breathing room as needed and only commit to one project a month. Some projects will be quicker, so I may manage more, but I’ll not stress about doing any more than one a month.

So, the plan is to update weekly, on Mondays. First bite? To eat my frog*.

A list of project categories is available, as is a sample to download. I’m not sure if I’ll truly do all of the projects, so I do reserve the right to say that things are working for me as is in that area, so I’m not going to change. (Making my kitchen paperless comes to mind – I’ll see what the book says but my initial thoughts are that I probably won’t be doing this one.)

I’ve signed up as an affiliate, so if you want to join me taking One Bite at a Time, and if you buy the book through my link, I’ll get a portion of the cost. In other words, if this sounds good to you, please, use my affiliate link! It’s available as a download, or you can get it for your Kindle if that’s your preference.

*Haven’t read the chapter yet, but oh, how I hope she makes a reference to Brian Tracy’s Eat That Frog!: 21 Great Ways to Stop Procrastinating and Get More Done in Less Time

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Bible Planning Time…

I try* to read the Bible every day, and as soon as I finish Revelation I start back up with Genesis, but in a different version. Well, I’m almost done with my current version (The MacArthur Daily Bible, NKJV translation) so I’m thinking and praying about which one I’ll read next.

I’m really debating between either the Literary Study Bible, or the Change Your Life Daily Bible, but it’s hard to not be interested in the Faith in Action Study Bible. I am obviously a sucker for the various study Bibles, but I figure there are lots of worse things to be unable to resist.

As proof of my inability to resist various Bibles, here are all of the other ones I have on my shelf waiting for me to get to them. Yeah, these are just the ones I HAVEN’T read yet; I’ve also got some from previous years that, if I ever get through the new ones I’ll reread.**

Life Promises Bible
Archaeological Study Bible
ESV Study Bible
Discovery Study Bible
The Charles F. Stanley Life Principles Bible

This is one of my favorite times of the year – the thrill of starting a new version and diving back into the Word in a fresh way. I’ve never actually worried about how long it takes me to get through the Bible; even the “daily” ones that are designed to take a year I may get through faster or slower but I don’t worry about it – however long it takes is fine.

Previously I used to just reread the same Bible – a basic NIV version with no study notes or additional features. It was fine, but I feel like I gain so much more from my daily reading by not rereading the exact same book each time. I think this is the fourth or fifth Bible I’ve finished since beginning my new method, and I find it so beneficial that I wish I’d started years ago.

I’m also working on the Apologetics Study Bible v e r y s l o w l y. I don’t include it in my daily routine, but read bits of it as I can. It is DENSE and I find that I really need to think about what I’m reading. It was not working for me to read it right after breakfast like is my usual routine.

* Barring illness, travel, or a child who doesn’t sleep and allow me any time to concentrate, I read it every day, with one big exception being after the baby arrived. I think it was something like 6 months before I started reading it regularly again. I was just so exhausted I couldn’t begin to focus on my usual reading program, although I did dip into the Psalms occasionally when I had a little bit of brain power.

** Ones I have finished:
Quest Study Bible – LOVED this one! I still go back to it as a reference because I love the sidebars and other explanatory text.
Narrated Bible in Chronological Order – LOVED this one as well – found it really helpful to have the chronological order, especially when reading the OT prophets and Acts and the Epistles. Highly recommend this!
The Message – Not what I would use for serious study, but very readable and I appreciated the different way of reading some of the harder sections. Reading this was the first time I could truly read the Bible almost as a novel and I loved that.
iWorship Daily Devotional Bible – I wasn’t crazy about this one – I don’t like the New Living Translation very much, I didn’t like the font colors (not easy to read), and I didn’t find the extra material to be that beneficial. I should probably just donate it or resell it because I won’t reread it.
One Year Bible – very basic with no additional notes, devotionals or any extras, but it was my first “one year” Bible so I really appreciated the format.