Seven Quick Takes: Mother’s Day Edition

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I wasn’t sure how Mother’s Day would be, since Mr. SJ tweaked his back on Friday and wasn’t able to do as much with the kids, but other than needing me to handle all diaper changes and dirty dishes, he did all right. That might sound awfully suspicious, but washing dishes is generally tough on him because the height of the sink is bad for him, and that’s also what gets him with changing diapers. Eh, just give me some time to sit in peace and quiet and read without interruption and I am quite happy to change the diapers.

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I made myself the delectable King Arthur Flour Chocolate Indulgence cake that I discussed in my birthday planning 7QT. One of the nicest things about this cake is that it is way too chocolatey for Mr. SJ to want to eat it, so it’s all mine. Fortunately it freezes nicely too. :)

Mine wasn’t quite that pretty, but it tastes just as good as it looks.

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I thought about taking myself (and the baby) to the library for a bonus visit – usually I go only ever 3 weeks (the length of time a book can be checked out). I was too lazy to want to drive down there however, and instead just stayed home.

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I also passed on the opportunity to go to Target by myself (or just with the baby.) Again, the pull of my books was stronger than the pull of wandering the aisles in peace.

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Because the boy is generally so insistent that he be near me, unless he’s working with daddy (mowing the grass, cleaning up the garage), his dad ended up taking him to a nearby park for a walk on Sunday to give me some quiet. Of course the baby woke up not 5 minutes after they left, so the quiet wasn’t quite what he was trying to provide.

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Last week Mr. SJ was very weird about telling me that he was taking the boy out. They were going to the store. I was starting to ask him more in depth what he was doing because he was being so odd about it, and then I realized: Mother’s Day and my birthday are both approaching. I’m sure they’re going to go look for cards.

Yup, that’s what they were doing. The boy picked me out a very nice Mother’s Day card with Mickey Mouse, Donald Duck, and Goofy wishing me a happy day. As Mr. SJ said, there was absolutely no doubt which card he would pick once he saw that one; only perhaps if there had been a Lightning McQueen one might there have been some hesitation as to which one would win.

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My mom and mother-in-law pretty much always send me a card for Mother’s Day. Not this year, which made me laugh. However, one of my sister-in-laws sent me a really sweet card for Mother’s Day, and I wasn’t expecting that!

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Seven Quick Takes: Kid Edition

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G has had no interest in drinking from a “real” cup, and I never cared enough to really push it. He’s got cups with straws that he uses for water, and a supposedly teeth-friendly somewhat spouted cup that he uses at meals for milk. I figured with warmer weather I’d encourage him to take a real cup outside to practice.

Until last week, when on a whim I asked him if he wanted to try to drink like a big boy. A little water in a cup, and he drank it down like he’d been doing it forever. He was so proud of himself too, running around all day repeating that he’s “drinkin’ like uh BIG BOY!”

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Still no interest in using the potty like a big boy however.

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His sister is walking like an absolute pro now. She will cross the room in a flash, and is also so proud of herself. She knows she’s accomplishing something impressive! It’s cute how she still has to hold her arms out a bit for extra balance. And she’s liable to PLOP down onto her bottom suddenly if she loses that balance.

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My mother-in-law’s birthday was last week, and I prepped the boy for a birthday phone call.

“What are we going to tell Grandma?”

“HappybirthdayLoveYouSeeYouSoon!”

Amazingly, once on the phone he actually said it all! Unfortunately he wouldn’t say it when he was all that close to the phone, so it wasn’t super clear, but she claimed she understood it. It helped when he started repeating “LOVE YOU! LOVE YOU! LOVE YOU!” at length and volume.

He was also very excited to tell her his big news, already shared her in QT#1.

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G generally has really good enunciation, but he’s got one quirk that I find so adorable I don’t correct him. He’s started calling balloons and bananas “palloon” and “panana.” He used to say them both with the “b” sound, so I’m not sure where the “p” came from, but it is so cute, and I know it won’t last long so I’m just smiling at it while it lasts.

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If anyone ever asks for my children to be in a wedding again, please remind me to say no. Politely, but still. NO. It was so stressful worrying about whether or not he’d cooperate. Whether or not he’d throw a fit, or who knows what else to disrupt the ceremony. Would he even wear the clothes he was supposed to? They weren’t his usual:

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Happily, he was GREAT. Walked down the aisle with the flower girl, carrying the little pillow that supposedly held the rings (the best man/maid of honor actually had them, so we weren’t worried about him losing them.) Then when he got up to the front & the stairs, he apparently set the pillow down and then put his head down on it, much to the audience’s amusement. Daddy pulled him aside for most of the ceremony (and the flower girl just about threw a fit because she wanted to go join G with his dad, instead of staying with her dad on the other side of the room), and then got both kids back into position for their reverse trek down the aisle behind the bridge & groom.

Unfortunately due to a sick baby girl, I wasn’t able to attend the ceremony or reception, which is why I say “apparently” above. I’m just going on what was reported to me.

And the clothes? I prepped him for it by talking them up as “snazzy clothes.” He was so excited to put them on, he didn’t want to take them off! He kept walking around talking about his “SNAZZY CLOTHES!”

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So the wedding was on Saturday, and baby girl was sick. Sunday G was also sick, and was much worse than his sister had been. He spent a lot of Sunday snoozing on the couch or on me, and ended up staying up with his dad fairly late. He was clearly still sick because he never wanted anything for dinner, and even with all the napping, he still slept that night (albeit a late start.)

Not that I want my children to be sick, but since I was also sick, it was a good time for G to be lower energy & willing to crash on the couch. I couldn’t have kept up with his usual requests to play outside, or go for walks or whatever else he’d want.

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Seven Quick Takes: Most Memorable Books Edition

Anne from a Modern Mrs. Darcy has had a “The Book That Changed My Life” Carnival going on this week. I didn’t participate because I can’t really think of a book that strikes me as “This Book Changed me.” But it did get me thinking of what books have been the most memorable.

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All those kid’s books that my mom read overandoverandover. Nope, no specific names here, because there were so many. I’ve got pictures of me as a toddler hefting a pile of books almost as big as me. I’ve got a picture of me passed out in the chair surrounded by books. I’ve even got a picture of me on the little kid potty, reading books.

I wanted my mom to read those books so many times that she finally made her own books on tape, complete with a little chime to tell me when to turn the page. I would listen to them endlessly, so much so that I learned to read when I was barely 3 just from sheer repetition. A relative thought I’d simply memorized those books, and brought out new ones to test me. To her shock, it confirmed that I was really reading!

Pure determination and desire (and a lot of repetition by my mom) opened up the world of books to me long before I’d have learned in school. It may be cheating because I don’t remember the specific titles, but as a group the story of how I learned to read has entered family lore, as has the early start to my reading addiction.

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The Little House series. The books, not the TV series, which I always hated because of how it departed from the books.

I read these countless times as a child, and certain scenes have stuck with me. Laura and her family using their coffee grinder to prepare the wheat for their small daily ration of bread in The Long Winter. All the glorious food described in Farmer Boy. Jack the brindle bulldog trotting along beneath their wagon as they traveled west.

I’m anxious to share these stories with my children, and I hope they love them as much as I did.

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Anne of Green Gables. I’m still determined to travel to Prince Edward Island someday so I can see the setting for this book and the others by L. M. Montgomery. Anne was so real to me, and her books made me long to have a close friend like her. I’m glad I have a daughter to share this book with her someday. And while I liked all of the series well enough, the first book was definitely my favorite.

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Jane Eyre. I read this as a fairly young child (5th grade or 6th), and to this day I remember the shock some people expressed when they found out I was reading it. I didn’t get the surprise – there was nothing that complicated to understand in the book, and it had such an exciting ending. I did reread it a few years ago, to see how I liked it as an adult, and yes I missed some of the subtleties, but it’s still not anything I would say I shouldn’t have been reading, which is the impression I remember getting.

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The James Herriot books (All Creatures Great and Small, All Things Bright and Beautiful, All Things Wise and Wonderful, and The Lord God Made Them All). My mom got me started on these books, and she used to read one chapter a night. I’ve never had any interest in being a vet, certainly not a large animal vet in the Yorkshire Dales, but these books transported me. I still own them, and hope that my children like hearing them all, one chapter at a time.

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The Distant Summer by Sarah Patterson. I first read this as a teen or maybe even a pre-teen as a Reader’s Digest Condensed Book. I’m somewhat embarrassed to admit how much I adored this story. It’s a sappy love story! Sappy love story or not, I read it multiple times, and have never forgotten the story or characters. Definitley one of my guilty reading pleasures. I’ve always wondered if I would still love it as an adult, so writing this post made me curious enough to order the book (long out of print, there are used copies available). I’m somewhat scared to see if reading it now will taint my fond memories, but I’m going to try it anyway.

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The Harry Potter series . I was an adult when I read this series, but it’s so special to me because of my grandmother. When I was in graduate school (the first time), I lived with my parents, and my grandmother also moved in due to declining health. She loved to read and I would do my best to keep her well stocked with reading material. As her eyesight continued to diminish, she got pickier and pickier about what she would read; it had to be worth the effort, and she knew she only had so many more books left that she’d get to.

Harry Potter made the cut, and we would both anxiously await the newest volume. I bought very few new books, especially fiction, but made an exception for Harry. There was no way we’d be able to wait to get a copy from the library!

I think I was more upset than my grandmother when Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince (Book 6), was too heavy for her to hold, and so remained unread. She died before Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows (Book 7) was ever published.

I still love Harry Potter not just for the great story, but because it reminds me of my adored grandmother and how much she enjoyed it. And what a kick she got out of reading “a kid’s book.”

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Seven Quick Takes: Birthday Planning Edition

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My birthday is less than a month away, and it’s within a few days of Mother’s Day, so I’ve got some serious decisions to make. Specifically, where to go out to eat. We don’t go out on Mother’s Day itself (as a former server, there is NO WAY I ever want to be a part of that scene ever again. Worst day ever to be a food server), but the day before or day after is usually considered my Mother’s Day meal. And we definitely go out for my birthday. :)

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My mother-in-law will be arriving a few days before my birthday, so she’ll be able to watch our kids and we can go out as just the two of us. This is really exciting to me, and it increases my desire to make sure I pick wisely so as not to waste this rare opportunity.

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Thanks to her visit, I may even be able to come close to replicating my pre-children birthday routine: read as much as possible all day long, of whatever book(s) I most wanted to read. There’s no way I’ll be able to read all day, but I may be able to get a good chunk of reading time in while she plays with the kiddos. This makes me very happy. :)

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This also means that I need to start planning ahead and ensure that I have “birthday-worthy” reading material ready to go. Since most of my books come from the library it really is essential that I plan ahead.

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It may seem ridiculous that I’m still a few weeks away from my birthday and I’m already planning all of this, but I love anticipating fun events, so by planning it now, I get to extend the enjoyment from now until my actual birthday. Why wouldn’t I start planning early? Because my husband’s birthday is exactly 5 weeks before mine, that becomes a nice cue for me as to when it’s reasonable to start thinking about my own birthday.

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I also start planning my birthday dessert early, because I always make my own. I’m thinking about something ridiculously chocolatey and peanut-buttery, but I’m still considering my options.

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One year I bought the Chocolate Indulgence Cake Mix from King Arthur Flour (one of my favorite shops of all time) and made it for myself. If you think about the prices of general cake mixes at the grocery store, $13 for a cake seems crazy. If I compare it to the $45 a similar cake costs to purchase from a nearby bakery, then the mix price doesn’t seem so bad. Yes, that’s the picture that KAF uses to advertise it at the top of my post.

(That link is not an affiliate link or anything. I don’t get anything by talking up the mix, or the company overall. I just love them and loved that cake.)

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Seven Quick Takes

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I’ve been working hard on sorting pictures lately, both to get caught up on sharing them with grandparents and other family, and to make sure everything is backed up and safe. It’s been fun looking back at baby girl, because the changes from just a few months are amazing.

I’ve shared it before, but here’s one of those old pictures of baby H:

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Tomorrow will be the first Saturday we don’t have plans in awhile, and we need to appreciate it because next Saturday is the in(RL) meetup, and the next Saturday is a wedding. This is really unusual for us to have all of our Saturdays with something scheduled, and I don’t really like it.

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I still do not have anything for my son to wear to that wedding, and it’s kind of important since he’s going to be the ring bearer. Who won’t actually have the real rings of course, because I would not trust him with that. I’m really skeptical that he’ll cooperate and walk down the aisle like they want him to, but it’s not my family, so I didn’t feel like I could do more than gently discourage having him in that role. Unfortunately for me and my I-hate-shopping persona, even though it’s my husband’s family & he was the one to give the final “yes, he’ll do it,” I’m the one who has to find him something to wear. And some appropriate shoes. And I’m running out of time!

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We’ve just started “birthday season.” That’s what I now think of this time of year. Mid-April is my husband’s birthday. Mine is six weeks later. End of June is baby girl’s, and then just over two weeks later is the boy’s. So yes, that’s April, May, June & July, all covered by the four of us. Fortunately both kids are too young to have strong opinions on gifts or parties or cake, so there isn’t much pressure on me.

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Mr. SJ? He bought his own birthday present this year, because he wanted some more memory for his laptop, and a box of baseball cards. The cards I probably could have ordered, but I don’t know what brand he collects, and I definitely don’t know what sort of memory he wanted for his laptop. So instead of him telling me exactly what to order & then hoping I don’t mess it up, he just ordered it himself.

It’s really obvious sometimes that we’ve been married almost a decade, isn’t it? We are so super romantic when it comes to gifts. :)

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I’ve liked the crazy Spring weather we’ve had it’ll be nice and warm with one chilly day mixed in there – just enough for me to fix soup for dinner or some other cool-weather meal. I always mourn the end of soup season so I appreciate the inconsistent weather extending it for me! Something tells me that we’ve seen the last of it and it’s time to say goodbye to soup until Fall.

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I take it back – we do possibly have plans this weekend. Unless something changes or gets delayed, we’re selling my car to one of Mr. SJ’s extended family. I am ridiculously sad about this. I’m also wondering just how long we’ll make it as a one-vehicle family, or if our timetable to get a replacement will get accelerated.

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Seven Quick Takes: Kid Edition

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We had a busy weekend, with Mr. SJ hosting his fantasy baseball draft on Saturday, and then all the extended family over for dinner on Sunday. I was not sure how the kids (well, G-man) would do with all of the commotion. Happily, he did GREAT. Saturday was a little bit hard for him because he so wanted to go down into the basement where the draft was occurring, but overall he did well with being told no. He very cutely had to go downstairs to say goodbye to one of the guys when it was time to go to bed however, and I did let him do that.

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On Sunday one of the cousins brought his dog along with him to let her run around our backyard. I wasn’t there to see it, but apparently when the dog appeared in the backyard, G ran after her yelling in glee “I GOT A DOG!!!!”

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G spent almost the entire day on Sunday playing in the backyard with whoever was out there. I saw him at one point pulling his second cousin (6 months older than him) around in his wagon. He loved all the company.

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I was also really amused by him when we were eating lunch. He insisted that he needed to eat with “the guys.” All the older boy cousins (junior high/high school age) were out on the porch, and he demanded to go out there too. Fortunately all the guys are nice, and didn’t complain when a little guy joined them.

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Baby girl was fairly happy being held by other people, especially one of the great uncles. It was very nice hosting in part because I could still put her down for her naps on her usual schedule. They ended up being really short naps, but still better than what she would have gotten if we’d gone to someone else’s house.

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G has recently rediscovered the fun of putting on my shoes and trying to walk in them. He especially likes this one pair of red shoes that I got just before finding out I was pregnant with him. I think he’s worn them more than I have, because they were not especially pregnancy-friendly, or well suited for running after small children. I keep hoping that someday I’ll wear them, but at least he’s getting some fun out of them.

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G has also been willing to play by himself in the backyard over the past few weeks. He’d vastly prefer me to be out there with him, but if the only option is to go by himself, he’ll take it. This is a relief to me because allergy season makes it so hard for me to spend any time outside at all. Thanks to the fenced yard, I can sit inside and watch him, and know that he’s not going to wander off.

Well, except for that day when the bungee cord that was securing the gate broke, and I spotted him driving his motorcycle on the driveway, but we’ve got that gate padlocked now, and the key is out of his reach.

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Seven Quick Takes: Blogging Edition

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I’ve been doing a lot of thinking about blogging lately, specifically, the direction of this blog, why I write it, why anyone should read it, all that good stuff.

A big part of why I blog is for the community; being a stay-at-home mom can be so isolating, and it’s helpful to have a way to meet others, even if it’s just virtually. Yes, this ties in to finding friends, although in that post I was specifically speaking about real-life friends, those I can get to know in person. It’s broader than that though, it’s about finding other people who are thinking about things I find interesting. It’s about growing spiritually. It’s about improving as a mom.

I could still read those blogs even if I didn’t write my own, but during my hiatus from blogging I discovered that I comment less and consider other posts less when I’m not blogging as well.

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One of my problems in really focusing this blog’s content is that I’m not very focused. My undergraduate degree? Liberal Studies (nice and broad, isn’t it?). My Master’s degree? Library and Information Science (which in practice means I know a little bit about an awful lot.)

So, when Amy Lynn Andrews says I need to answer What problem does my blog solve for my readers, or what will someone gain from reading my blog? I feel clueless.

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This is one reason I keep coming back to the idea of starting a separate cooking/baking blog. It would be much easier to keep a tighter focus there, and not feel so random. Realistically though, it might very well be the end of this blog because keeping up with two would be a huge challenge for me in this season of life.

Putting this blog on hiatus doesn’t seem like the best thing either, because I have loved the accountability it provides me to keep moving forward on goals and tasks (like working my way through the One Bite at a Time ebook.)

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I think about these things and then I wonder why am I stressing? I’m not trying to support my family with this blog, so does it matter if I don’t have a tightly-defined mission and focus?

Except, what if I made some simple changes and could bring in some extra income? I may not need it to pay the mortgage right now, but things can change, and if I could make some money from what’s currently a hobby, that could be really helpful to us both now and in the future, especially if anything were to change with Mr. SJ’s job.

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Some of it is, strangely enough, that I like being organized and having a plan, and when I have a good outline for posting I feel so happy. Lately it’s made me happy knowing my posting routine is more-or-less structured for me:
My current posting routine?

  • Sunday is about my weekly memory verses (currently taking a brief break before starting up again on Easter)
  • Monday is the weekly One Bite at a Time update
  • Tuesday (in March) is my Write It, Girl post. I pick whatever comes to mind as the hardest or scariest thing to write and go with it. Even though the Write It, Girl challenge has officially ended until whenever it is they start it up again, I’m thinking I’ll continue with this sort of post. I’ve found it challenging to write the posts, but it’s felt great to have them written!
  • Wednesday is the most random of days. Goals, Reading, Book Reviews, House Progress, they’re all slotted for Wednesdays.
  • Thursdays is my p52 photo post, with themes determined for me.
  • Friday is Seven Quick Takes of course. I’ve had the second Friday of the month devoted to a Kid Edition 7QT, but other than that they’ve been completely random, or themed to whatever is going on with me.
  • Saturday is currently post-free, except on very rare occasions.

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So, as I think about these issues I played around with Picnik (before it closes next month, sniff), and made myself a blog button. A graphic designer I’m not, but I do get the satisfaction of having done it all by myself. :)

Seasoned Joy sharing the wonders of everyday life

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What do you look for in a blog you read regularly? A clearly defined mission? A distinctive voice? Gorgeous photos? Beautiful design?

If you could change my blog, how would you?

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